Making love is not just about the physical intimacy, but also about the actions before and after the act. Your behaviour means a lot to your partner and also is the basis of your future acts of intimacy. People often take their partner for granted and behave boorish. It surely steals the charm of your relationship and also annoys your partner. Here are some things you must never do after making love.
Rushing to the bathroom
Getting up and rushing to the bathroom just after making love is a terrible idea. Most people go to the bathroom to check their appearance, brush their teeth or take a shower. It is understandable that you want to be clean but sometimes just lying in the bed with your partner is much more intimate.
Unhygienic action
Lovemaking is an act in which you share your privacy with your partner; still there are limits. Scratching or picking your nose or passing gas in not at all funny. One must maintain certain etiquette even in their closest moments together.
Checking your mobile
Almost everyone does it. Checking your phone just after making love makes your partner feel neglected. We know your time is valuable and you need to stay connected to the world, but the intimate moment with your partner is also a precious one, respect that.
Dressing to leave
You are done and you are moving on, certainly it means lovemaking was just another task on your mind. You may be getting late for work but a minute of togetherness when you look into your partners eyes and bond at an emotional level goes a long way in your relationship.
Saying how good you were
You need not toot your own horn. You may feel that you were "superhuman" in bed today but saying that makes it cringe-worthy. It is better to compliment your partner, and if she/he feels you were good they will certainly say so.
Turning on the TV
Listening to the problems of the free world or catching the latest score just after some great making love may seem to be a very relaxing and luxurious idea but actually it is not. It shows your insensitivity towards the intimacy you just shared. If you have to watch TV, select something both of you can watch together.
Not cuddling
Some people just roll over and go to sleep after making love. It is better to cuddle and show your love and affection to each other. Look into each other’s eyes and relax in your partner’s arms. This is a great moment to bond and have a romantic conversation about your love, dreams and life.
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